Every human being is gifted with a feminine and a masculine side. The Yin and the Yang.   While the masculine side denotes strength the feminine side denotes value of self and the value you place on others. The tussle occurs when a woman tries to explore her masculine side and vice versa. The shift and balance comes a lot easier to women than to men for a man is often shunned if he tries to step on the other side. 

Oh please give him a break

Let him give

Let him care

Let him walk in your shoes

Tell him you love him when he cries

Tell him you love him when he shares

Don’t let him rot

Don’t let him wither away

Don’t let him yearn

Love him for what he is

Not for how you want him to be.